Chinese etiquette: Most common mistakes
My question is inspired by this one: Japanese etiquette: Most common (and offensive) mistakes? Which made me think about my upcoming trip to China.
As a Dutch citizen, I have experienced a lot that what we consider normal behavior, is considered rude or absolutely not-done, in other, even bordering, European countries. I've not been in Asia before, but I am prepared to try to adjust to the local customs as much as possible, and I think there is a lot that can be done wrong.
I've read the linked question with great interest, but I wonder to what degree these answers will actually apply to China?
For example, I recently learned that when toasting, you show respect by keeping your glass lower than the other.
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In addition to the other answers, I would like to share some of my recent experience.
In the subways of the large cities, one is of course expected to offer your seat to older people or pregnant women. In contrary to the Western subways I've been in, it is also expected that you offer your seat to small children. (This probably has something to do with the crowdedness of most subways).
Most temples I've visited (Buddhist temples), have very large doorsteps at the entrance. Always step over it, no matter how large the doorstep is. I've seen tourists sit on this, but this is clearly not appreciated (even though they won't tell you).
In restaurants it is very well accepted to shout to waiters to get their attention (fúwùyuán!). You will see it everywhere around you, so it is easy to pick up.
I was quite surprised that all restaurants/shops/etc by default don't pay taxes on the sells. You can ask for another check (fapiao). This makes sure the restaurant pays the taxes (the price does not change). The Chinese government makes these checks into scratchcards, such that you can earn some money. Some restaurant will offer you a free drink if you do not ask for the fapiao.
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What is considered disrespectful in China?
Do not touch, hug, lock arms, back slap or make any body contact. Clicking fingers or whistling is considered very rude. Never put your feet on a desk or a chair. Never gesture or pass an object with your feet.What is proper etiquette in China?
Basic Etiquette. Give and receive everything with two hands. Tipping is considered derogatory as it is something a superior does to an inferior. The correct decorum during interactions in China always entails showing deference to those who are older.What should you not do around Chinese people?
10 Things Not to Do in China- Don't Talk about Uncomfortable or Politically Sensitive Topics. ...
- Don't Disrespect the Customs of Minority Groups and Temples. ...
- Don't Make Close Personal Contact, Such as a Hug or Kiss. ...
- Don't Expect Interpersonal Communications to Be the Same. ...
- Don't Forget Your Manners When Using Chopsticks.
Dos and Don'ts of Chinese Etiquette: Things You Should NEVER Do According to Chinese Tradition!
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