How dangerous is India for solo women travellers, or female-only groups?
Why India is not safe for solo women is an article in The Telegraph (UK) describing one woman's issues with sexual harassment in India.
Some of the information there describes a worse situation than the impression I got from Wikivoyage's "Female travellers" section.
For example, The Telegraph says that the author and her female friends were followed into the surf of a beach by ten men and were sexually harassed there, even though they wore t-shirts and full length trousers into the water. By contrast, Wikivoyage says "People are generally modestly clothed even at the beaches. So, be sure to find out what the appropriate attire is for the beach you are visiting. ..."
Regarding sexual harassment, Wikivoyage says
"The simplest way to avoid this remains the same as in your home country. Anything overt should be treated in a firm manner and if needed, ask the local populace (women in particular) to try and get the message across. Avoid confrontation if at all possible"
, while the advice the author of the Telegraph article got was:
“When a man touches you, do what Indian women do: hit them, hard!” It is advice we followed from then on, as embarrassment gave way to anger.
The perception that India was unsafe for women wasn't based just on foreign travellers' perceptions either, according to the Telegraph article:
India simply is not safe for unaccompanied women. We were told as much very often by older, educated Indian men. With a disbelieving shake of the head, they offered to pay for taxis to help us cross a city that they would not allow their daughters out alone in.
Is the Telegraph's article (written while the Delhi gang rape court case is ongoing) an accurate description of the situation with sexual harassment ("Eve teasing") in India?
Best Answer
Over the last few years I have traveled alone in touristed areas of Delhi, Kerala & Rajasthan. I am a 29 year old Caucasian woman. I have travelled alone extensively in Europe, North & Central America. I never felt unsafe, but I followed some basic rules.
Activities: I did not go out alone at night. I mostly didn't go out at night except in the absolutely most heavily touristed, backpacking westernized towns(Varkala, Jaisalmer). I took cabs & rickshaws alone, but avoided any that solicited me or where the driver had a buddy. On the bus or trains I would get asked many questions by the locals but no one was rude or unfriendly. Occasionally walking around I would get approached with 'do you have a boyfriend/husband? Do you want one?' type things, but it wasn't too bad. I have had similar experiences in Europe or USA although rarer. I felt safe walking around in the day, and on the long distance buses. I did not take the local buses. I didn't feel as safe in Delhi or Jaipur as I did in the smaller towns or cities.
Dress: I dressed conservatively for me: nothing tight or short. Nothing shorter than mid-shin, nothing showing the chest. I bought a couple of local scarves as soon as I could and wore those - fun shopping + a quick way to look more locally appropriate.
I went swimming in a normal one-piece suit in Varkala (very heavily Westernized) but covered up when I got back to my towel. There were people on the beach making sure no Indian men ogled the women too much.
There were many other travellers doing the same thing - more in Kerala than in the north, but in general it did not seem overly dangerous. You might get scammed, hard-sold, or something similar, but physical danger can be generally avoided.
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Answer 2
Few points:
- While on the road, try to dress like Indian women. No, this does not mean that you have to wear a saree or a veil. Get a loose Kurta-Salwar (a long tunic that covers below the hips) stitched with a proper Duppata (shawl.) Use the Duppatta to cover your head, back and chest. Your attire should draw less attention towards yourself.
Kurta-Salwar:
Duppata:
A few days back, in a metro, I saw a western girl wearing a very transparent T-shirt. I could clearly see her black bra!
Please remember that though India is a democratic country, showing off your skin (purposefully) and then complaining of eve teasing does not make sense here.
No, wearing low waist jeans which shows your lower back somewhat is NOT normal here. Cleavage showing is an absolute NO.
If you have somewhat long hair, try to braid it. That's what traditional women do here.
If male strangers try to talk to you like - "How are you doing?", "You are from which country?" etc.- do NOT respond, just give them a frown and look away. It is NOT normal for Indian women to respond to useless queries from male strangers.
When in a shared auto, do NOT sit with the driver. Indian girls usually avoid going in shared autos until they get a proper back seat. Sitting with the driver in a shared auto is a complete NO.
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